Whenever this session's topic was proposed, I must admit, it caught me rather off guard. I suppose what I look for in a wife is something I am always thinking about, but at the same time, I never really think about it. It is tough. A large amount of thought was provoked by this question. And on top of the fact that the question itself is enough to send one's brain scrambling, four and a half examples? What? What is a half characteristic? It was a genius topic. One that truly stimulates the brain in many ways. I like it. Anyhow, I will now allow you all to join me on an adventure through the mysterious and treacherous landscape of my mind. Fasten your seat belts...
The First Characteristic that I look for in a potential spouse would have to be a girl that I can have fun with. I mean, I want my wife to be a lass that I can be myself around and have a good time with. A girl who always brings a smile to my face and that I can always rely on to brighten my day is one of my fantasies. I love a gal who is spontaneous and has an unquenchable thirst for adventure, a lively maiden with a gamesome spirit and who is always high-spirited, a woman who will keep me on my toes and loves to laugh, that is the kind of girl for me. If I'm going to get hitched, I am going to strive to make the relationship exciting and filled with joy, and I hope that my spouse does the same. If I were to be in a relationship and it wasn't exciting, I would consider the relationship an all-around disaster, and both myself and my partner would have failed each other. That at least, is my humble thought on the matter.
The Second Characteristic that makes a girl stand out above the rest in my mind is a girl who is competitive. A girl with a competitive spirit mesmerizes my soul. Whenever I see a girl with the fire of competition burning in her eyes, a fire burns in my heart. True story. I attribute that to the fact that I myself can be pretty competitive at times, and my wife and I would have to be the greatest tag-team duo of all time. That after all, is the end-game, correct? This one is pretty important to me. Whenever I see a girl, or anyone for that matter, who has poor sportsmanship and really doesn't care about the game. That is a turn off. It really does kill the mood, and in some cases it does infuriate me. I try to avoid those people. Some people won't understand that, but those are normally the people who aren't really competitive. I don't expect those people to understand.
The Third Characteristic that came to mind whenever I was thinking of what I look for in a potential bride and mate, was the ability to care for and be comfortable around children. Whenever I see a girl making a small child or infant smile or giggle or if a babe is talking about her mad skills babysitting, she immediately begins to glow with a most holy shine. A woman with a maternal instinct is always a plus. After all, your spouse is the woman who will bear your children (if you plan to have them). I plan on having kids, and I want a wife who will be a good mother to my children. I am not the best when it comes to kiddos, so having a wife with that as a strong suit would definitely be a good thing. That being said, I don't want a spouse who will pamper my children to the point that they become spoiled and disrespectful. Which brings me to my Fourth Characteristic...
The Fourth Characteristic, which may be one of the most vital of them all, is a respectful attitude. Respect is vital to any successful relationship, be it a friendship, a partnership, and most of all a marriage. A girl who has respect for others, be it her parents, a waiter/waitress, her peers, or anyone at all is like the sun, simply the brightest celestial being of them all, outshining all of the rest. Respect is like an oil which lubricates the gears of a clock, without it the gears would grind and cause friction resulting in the destruction of the machine. Without respect, a relationship can not survive. It, like the clock, will have such an internal conflict that it stops functioning at all. Mutual respect among a couple is extremely important, and that is why whenever I see a respectful young lady, I am quite smitten. Truth. They are hard to find, but they, like the majestic and illusive Bigfoot, do indeed exist.
Finally, The Half Characteristic that I must list is a British Accent. I say this is a half characteristic because, half of the time I think that girls with British Accents are extremely attractive, but the other half of the time I think they are simply the most annoying ever. It is an internal conflict that I struggle with from time to time.
Anyhow, that concludes my list. Thank you for tolerating my rambling.
Until Next Time,
SweetnLowe signing off!
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